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Book review: Things I wish I'd known before we got Married
Professors and Dancers
These personality differences often go undiscovered and undiscussed before marriage.
During the courtship phase of the relationship, decisions are often made simply because he and she want to please each other. After marriage, when life gets serious and real, this desire to please each other is not as natural.
When differences emerge, the logical thinker will seek to press the intuitive thinker into having logical reasons for their position. This is expecting and demanding the impossible.
The intuitive person will never process life with the logic of the professor.
If you try to force each other into your own personality mold, you may spend a lifetime in conflict.
We must recognize that logical and intuitive thinking are both legitimate ways of processing life.
We must focus not on the process whereby we reach our conclusions but on finding conclusions with which both of us can agree.
The principles we discussed in Chapter Four on how to resolve disagreements without arguing will be extremely helpful to couples who have this personality differences.
May God help you, Amen.
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