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We love you all for your comments and counsel to Fola and Daniel. Your response meant so much to us as we share this to bless others out there who found themselves in such situation and are confused.
TOBI
I think Fola should inform Daniel's parents and explain to them all what happened. They should be in d best position to help her. That is if her love for Daniel is genuine.
I think if she can't talk to Daniel as at that time, his parents should be able to do that better after all d begging and pleading.
YEMISI
I believe in every godly relationship, ugly past must be discussed... If that has been done, Daniel should come closer to Fola more than before because it may not be easy for her to avoid Gbenga due to the feelings they both had. Fola should be prayerful to know mind of God on the present issue and go for godly counseling.
Mary
Since Fola failed on her path to tell Daniel about her past relationship and invited Gbenga to her apartment which is not appropriate, the place of prayer and confession can't be overemphasized at this time.
Then, if Daniel has truly met with Christ and has a forgiving spirit as we were told in the story, Fola shouldn't hesitate to see her Pastor or Daniel's pastor or both, to explain things to them, seek their counsel or that of the marriage committee in order to convince Daniel of the genuineness of her apology. These people can still influence Daniel of the truth.
And of course, Fola shouldn't marry Gbenga, except Daniel isn't going back on his decisions. Fola is however free yo marry Gbenga if she's led and convinced.
#my opinion #
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