"He that is faithful in that which is least is faithful also in much: and he that is unjust in the least is unjust also in much." Luke 16:10
Any home built on deceit will surely crumble. Faithfulness is a necessary factor needed to build a home.
I still got some comments on the appropriate stage to reveal an ugly past to a partner but can I ask? Can we do it through a third party, like our Mentor, Pastor or Parent?
Jide said, "I really love this write up more grace in Jesus name.
One of the things I actually believe in a relationship is that we should go to where we will be celebrated not where we will be tolerated. I believe we should relate our past both pleasant and unpleasant to our partners at the inception of the relationship. If your partner says capital NO to you because of your bad records after telling your partner that you have changed and you are now a child of God. Let him or her go, that person is not the will of God for you. God will definitely bring someone that will celebrate you even with your bad records. Don't start your relationship with lies but with true, love and fear of God, that is when a solid relationship can be built. To me, it is better to marry a faithful defiled person than a demonic unfaithful virgin.
Tope(Mrs.)
Well, I think there will be a stage when you know the intention of your partner is marriage and not just friendship or play. It is better when you see the seriousness in the other party ( if he/she can live with such without problem, he/she will stay no matter what) so you don't end up telling every dick, tom and harry your ugly past when they do not intend to marry you in the first instance.
You don't wait until you have known his/her parents or the introduction/wedding plans have started, else everyone would eventually hear about the reason for the break up. Be wise!!!
I appreciate you friends. We will conclude on this matter after checking the other comments tomorrow by God's grace.
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