06-07-16 LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP 3

" I will stand upon my watch, and set me upon the tower, and will watch to see what he will say unto me, and what I shall answer when I am reproved."Habakkuk 2:1

Till yesterday, I was still receiving advises for Sola and Kola. Let's check some:

Olaitan
The lady should quit. .. It's a danger zone for her. The guy is a leech, he needs a cook, homemaker and a bed mate - some one that will serve him.

Jaiye
Firstly, they are building their marriage away from the truth, (not telling the church that they stay together) that show that they known its wrong.
Secondly, prayer is the key...this shows that she/he or both of them didn't pray enough or together. They stay together but can't pray together. (What a shame)
I will not say God is revealing things to the woman, he can be his destined husband. A man can change and be right with God before or after marriage. They are getting it wrong because God is not the first in their life and their relationship.
Nice story.
My Advice: the girl should rent her own apartment/or stay with someone (a lady colleague), she should tell the church the truth,
She should pray more and let the Holy spirit lead her.

Joseph
Wisdom is all it takes...

Temitope
Hmmmm
I think it's obvious enough that Kola isn't what and who Sola assumed him to be. Living together wasn't a good idea in the first place,then getting engaged to a man God hasn't told you about is another mistake. Not every good and Godly man is the right man. You need to seek God's face for His Will, irrespective of the lady's /man's characters or qualities. All in the name of sudden and surprising proposals,many ladies have made a mistake of seeing such act as being *romantic* which is not,but it's rather called *being taken advantage of*.
Since it's just introduction, I will advise she moves out (she's earning enough to get an apartment) ,dissolve the relationship and seek God's forgiveness and light on who His Will is for her. Then,if God says it's still Kola,she has a lot to do in praying and seeking counsel on how to put things right,but I doubt if it would be him.😊.

By God's grace, we will still check the responses I got tomorrow and put a final touch to our subject matter by the end of the week.

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