For which of you, intending to build a tower, sits not down first, and counts the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it? Luke 14:28
Kola, a decent man, was a saving grace for Sola when she needed an accommodation after her youth service in Abuja. They met at the church she joined after her service year.
Kola has a three-bedroom flat apartment closer to Sola's new office where she was retained after her youth service. She wouldn't let go of the job due to the economic situation of the country.
She moved in with Kola who gave her a room in his apartment. Kola is also a godly, caring and disciplined man. He has a good job and also a protocol officer in his church.
They were living fine as flat-mates with no emotional string attached; although none of them is engaged.
Kola buys the foodstuffs while Sola does the cooking and buys other minor expenses necessary in the house.
After a year of staying together, Sola decided to move to her own self-contain apartment which she just rented outside Kola's knowledge.
The day she was to inform Kola, he came home with a surprise.
He proposed to her and she got engaged that night. Kola gave out her accommodation to someone else, refunded Sola's money and insisted they continue to live together so that they could plan their wedding together.
Few months later, Sola was promoted and her salary scale increased which she sees as a confirmation to her answered prayers coupled with other signs such as their name, 'SOLA AND KOLA', compatibility of staying together without committing sexual sin and many others.
After their family introduction, some things started unfolding, Kola stopped buying foodstuffs and turned the responsibility to Sola. Physical touches started in the house and Sola kept wondering what has gotten into him. He returns late from work and have limited time with Sola in the name of being busy at work.
Sola does all the planning alone, Kola easily dozes when its time to discuss their plan.
They've started their marriage counseling session in church, although they did not inform the church that they are staying together.
One night, he tried to rape her but apologized the following day of not knowing what got into him. They started praying and fasting together towards their home but Sola is now afraid.
Please advise them.
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