Gracefully, we will look into the remaining three points out of many reasons for delayed marriage.
So far, we've discussed four(4) reasons, which are:
Ignorance, Lack of Commitment, Discouragement, and Carelessness. (If you miss those recipes, send me a message or check our blog).
Pride: Inability to accept the views and opinion of others at different occasions, which may or may not be obvious, can lead to delayed marriage. Marriage is a journey of 'eternal' agreement between a matured man and woman. Whenever you find it difficult to comply to suggestions or to trust others, watch out my dear...
Selfish Desires/Motives: On this point, it will be a great idea to announce to you some selfish motives of marriage. Some wants marriage just to get children; some, to get a cook; some, to get a financier; some, to tie down their partner from other commitments and be their servant/maid, some, because of parental or family pressures and some, to get a bed-mate. If these desires mistakenly looped-out, their partner's may flee.
The last point on this note is Self will. It is so close to the point above but a bit different. Self Will can be likened to PERSONAL STANDARDS set out as a criterion for marriage, which no divine revelation or instruction can overrule because it has been made a rigid law at heart that must not be tampered with.
Until those standards are met, he/she may decide not to settle down in marriage.
For example, building a house, buying a car, after Ph.d programme, engaging with a career/rich person...
God bless you as you look into those few points.
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