Kissing?

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21-02-16 RELEASE YOUR BURDENS

Maybe your partner is not around as at the time you have burden on your heart and you do not wish to share with outsiders. I have a good news for you. There is someone ever willing to hear, you have to belief He is always at your side to hear whatever you have to say - God.

Sit down, relax, smile, then, Open Up everything to Him and you will be relieved of your burdens in a jiffy even before you partner comes.  Some practice this by praying in the Holy Ghost while some just sit God down in a conversation, its real dear.

Do you know why you need it?

Both of you will still refer the issue to Him, so you can go ahead since your partner is not available at the moment to listen to you instead of worrying.
Don't be cast down within you, the Joy of the Lord is always your strength.

God cares so much, I care too
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20-02-16 Power of Influence

I'm grateful to God for lives blessed through PRESS-ON 2 recipe yesterday, for tears wiped from many faces.

If you are in the RIGHT relationship, i congratulate you. Ensure you cherish what God has given you.
Remember, you can't find a perfect man or woman on the surface; you MUST bring out the best in yourselves.

All relationships INFLUENCE everything about our personality.
Influence is an ACTION EXERTED by another person with such power to cause CHANGE. It is the ability to MANIPULATE someone either in conduct, thoughts, actions, deeds or decisions.

Be sure your relationship does not influence you negatively, it may be DEADLY. Go for the positive no matter what it may cost you (patience and all).

God cares, I care.
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19-02-16 PRESS ON (2)

Oh Lord, thank you for the life of my dear reader.

"All THINGS work together for GOOD to them that LOVE God and are called according to His PURPOSE."

Ignore desperation in the aspect of LIFE PARTNER.

Desperation hinders your understanding of essential areas to work on before the Right person comes; it denies you the ability to see the TRUTH about those who comes your way; it values you  cheap; it also blocks your Ear from listening to DIVINE instructions.

Instead, use your time now to work on yourself into becoming the best personality God will give any of His Children.
Don't position yourself in some ungodly strategic places/event in the name of searching for a life partner.

The time you have now is short. Start today, bring out the Best Groom/Bride in you and stop Worrying or Regretting.
Change your mentality of looking down on yourself, you are so SWEET to behold, dress well, eat well and look good.

Rejoice with your engaged-friends and don't be jealous or intimidated.

Rejoice with them that rejoices because ALL will soon rejoice with you.
PRESS ON, BE CHEERFUL, BE PRAYERFUL, then Desperation will disappear.

God cares, I care.
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True Life Story

Copied from Anita Erskine's wall:

Hello dear, happy valentine's day to you and all your readers and followers. I'm a marriage counselor by profession and want to share briefly, something that will benefit every woman.

My husband and I were married for 25 years when I discovered his other family. A woman with 3 children for him. We have 2 girls. She has 2 girls and 1 boy. I discovered this through our family doctor.

My younger daughter was applying to pursue her Masters abroad and had gone to take some tests at the lab. She is 23. She has a job so could not get the results herself. So I offered to get them for her.  

When I got to the clinic for her results, they gave me a package but the nurse asked if I can also wait for my second daughters tests. I was a bit confused because my older daughter is not even in Ghana. I comported myself and asked to see the doctor. A woman herself, she looked into the matter and immediately saw the discrepancy! The second test belonged to another girl. Same last name. Same father's name. Obviously the nurse wasn't thorough so she didn't LOOK at the mothers name!

So this is what happened to me all of 2015, discovering a lot about this hidden story. I never mentioned anything, all the while doing my investigations. On December 31st , I finally gathered courage and approached my husband about it. He didn't deny at all. Showed no remorse. Nothing. And then he dropped the bomb and then told me that I, rather, was the extramarital affair.

He met and married this lady 5 years before he met me. Because she was not giving him children, his family was giving him immense pressure and that's why he sought to find someone else. That someone was me. I immediately gave him 2 girls and he was prepared to divorce her and stay with me, when she eventually got pregnant.

He said the last child, which is the boy, brought him so much clarity and the tough experience he went through with his first wife, brought them back together in a way he never imagined. The boy was born with some development challenges and he learnt a lot through that.

For 25 good years I was the concubine. My sister and I never ever ever knew it. For 25 good years. But for me, as painful as it is, my own lesson is in realizing that it's a price I'm paying for being so hasty.

25 years ago,, I was also in a rush for marriage. I didn't ask questions. He came to my family and gave them the drinks. I was satisfied. I never even bothered to ask for us to go to sign. I was comfortable. Sheer stupidity. 

So then now, he has given me the option of staying or leaving. I'm yet to decide. And yes, I am a marriage counselor. The irony of it all. Preaching on what it takes for a marriage to be successful and mine isn't even real. I want to tell the ladies out there. Please be careful. Use me as an example. Don't just be jumping at everything. Especially without asking questions. Don't do it to yourself. It will break your spirit. Be careful of what you're promised. And never be afraid to investigate. You have only one life. Treat it with dignity. My few words this morning.

Stay blessed.

18-02-16 PITY FOUNDATION

Responses from yesterday's recipe encourages me to think. We have a lot to do. I really appreciate those who sent them.

You see, coming out straight to build on a Solid Rock, Strong and Able to stand especially when storm ravages, is a Great decision worth taking on life issues as relationship and marriage.

Do you know some still refused to make it right based on PITY?

Ask me how?
How?

The fact that they disvirgined their partner through fornication encamped and trapped them in the relationship. Some, because everyone already knows them together that they've been together for years kept them moving.
Although, that's not all.
Many PITY what would befall their partner if they leave or adhere to yesterday's recipe.

Listen, the number of years you've been together does not equalize your LIFE Journey in marriage.

Why would you destroy the journey of over 30years with a 5-7 years relationship founded in sexual immortality, incompatibility and pity?

You have no excuse for a wrong life-decision.

Revisit your foundation-What you are building on.
Get it right with the Fear of God. You will reap its fruits if you obey or disobey.

God cares, I care.
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That I May Know Him

TEXT: MATTHEW 16:13-17
“13) When Jesus came into the coasts of Caesarea Philippi, He asked his disciples, saying, Whom do men say that I the Son of man am?
14) And they said, some say that thou art John the Baptist: some, Elias; and others, Jeremias, or one of the prophets.
15) He saith unto them, But whom say ye that I am?
16) And Simon Peter answered and said, Thou art the Christ, the Son of the living God.
17) And Jesus answered and said unto him, Blessed art thou, Simon Bar-jona: for flesh and blood hath not revealed it unto thee, but my father which is in heaven.”
MEMORY VERSE: PHILLIPIANS 3:10
“That I may know Him, and the power of His resurrection, and the fellowship of His sufferings, being made conformable unto His death.”

INTRODUCTION
“Do I know God? Have we asked ourselves this question before? Jesus asked His disciples this similar question in the passage we read. They were so fast to reply him on what others call Him but when He directed the question to them, they were mute until God enlightened Peter on what to say. It is easy to see others than ourselves.
A minister of the word said, “Some people are SO FAMILIAR WITH GOD AND USED TO HIM, such people end up useless. We need to relate with Him with a sense of awe and take His word so serious all the time”. His words are NEW all the time.
There is difference between knowing ABOUT someone and knowing the person INTIMATELY. It was difficult for the disciples to answer Jesus because the Holy Spirit is yet to come upon them to bear the witness of the true identity of Jesus. Peter’s response was divine (Matthew 16:17). Do we know God?

BODY
Joyce Meyer said and I quote, “Many Christians go to church, do what they think they should be doing to follow all the rules, and live what they think is the Christian life; but inside they are wondering, is this it? Is this all there is?”
Our first experience of knowing God intimately is found through the indwelling presence of His Holy Spirit, who comes to us through salvation. Some Christians are not SAVED because they are yet to have an encounter with God; they rely on the fact that they are born into a Christian family, function in different capacities in the house of God, and also awaits the coming of the Lord Jesus without His Identity mark upon them. Such people fall for anything.
2 Corinthians 1:21-22 says “Now he which stablisheth us with you in Christ, and hath anointed us, is God; Who hath also SEALED us, and given the earnest of the Spirit in our hearts.”

THERE IS NOTHING AS WORSE AS BEING IN A LOW LEVEL STATE OF SPIRITUAL DISSATISFACTION ALL THE TIME. We will never be permanently, consistently satisfied if we seek things to do or own in order to quench the void inside of us instead of seeking inner satisfaction that comes only from the time spent with God after an encounter. The void cannot be filled with activities.

In Ezekiel 47:1-12, we see four (4) levels of commitment to God; Ankle stage, Knee stage, Loins stage, and Swimming stage. Some people only want to get closer enough to God that they are ankle-deep in water; they like to feel their feet on solid ground so that they can be sure they are still in control. Ezekiel 47 is a passage we must study to know our state and level of relationship with God.

CONCLUSION
THOSE WHO SEEK, CRAVE AND LONG TO SEE GOD WILL FIND HIM AND ENJOY HIS EVERLASTING FRUIT OF PEACE THAT PASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING. (Philippians 4:7)
Let us study Ezekiel 47:1-12 and we continue from there next time. Thank you.

17-02-16 GRACE 2

Yesterday, we considered how iniquity limits the grace of a glorious home.

In this present time, you will bear me witness that many singles and youth drown much in LUST and AFFECTION misinterpreted as LOVE.

How can you claim you love someone because he/she is good in bed? We are so proud to give LOVE specific conditions.
Some are in Love because of a particular ATTITUDE their friend possesses (...Oh! What a good cook, not stingy...)

When the attitude is best discovered in someone else, doubt/confusion will set in.

Many DROWN in LUST of the flesh then calls it 'FALLING in LOVE'. If you FALL in love, I fear, you may fall for anything your partner wants, either good or bad. (Check your choice of words)

Listen friend, if you are in a relationship that can't do without love practices (Kissing, fondling, sex, caressing...)anytime you are together with your partner, flee!
You are not building on the right foundation. The consequence is always lurking around both of you. It is never too late to start allover.

The more you engage in sexual immortality, the more you frustrate the GRACE of a GLORIOUS HOME.

This is no joke. Its so rampant in our days. Come out from AMONG them.

Join me to tell your friend, ZIP-UP!!!

God cares, I care.
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16-02-16 GRACE

The potency of the Grace on relationships differ.
Some relationships lasted for three months with a happy home; we have a year, some had challenges for many years which led to separation and later reunited.

The level of Grace differs but I discovered that the GRACE of God in your marital relationship abounds more in Righteousness and Diminishes in Iniquity.

It is not until you settle down before you can enjoy marital bliss and peace; righteousness enables Abundant Marital Peace of Mind.

Both of you needs to live in righteousness so that the Abundant Grace of God can announce your Home and clear Distractions on your behalf.

Peace be unto you.

He cares, I care.
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15-02-16 HUMAN STRENGTH

It is not by power nor by might but by the SPIRIT of the Lord to have a peaceful HOME/GLORIOUS RELATIONSHIP on earth.

You cannot continue to rough it through by your power, you will be tired and frustrated. If your relationship ain't working, cry out for help; if he/she treats you as not really important, its wrong to keep quite or hide such.

Maybe you wish to carry on with such because a prophet or your dream confirmed your relationship and you hope your STRENGTH can change/strategy such, you are mistaken.

BY STRENGTH SHALL NO MAN PREVAIL.

No matter your level of assurance, don't cry in silence, you may die in shame. Rely not on your power to change your partner, let GOD HELP you.

VOICE OUT my friend, the BEST is meant just for YOU.

He cares, I care
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15-02-16 HUMAN STRENGTH

It is not by power nor by might but by the SPIRIT of the Lord to have a peaceful HOME/GLORIOUS RELATIONSHIP on earth.

You cannot continue to rough it through by your power, you will be tired and frustrated. If your relationship ain't working, cry out for help; if he/she treats you as not really important, its wrong to keep quite or hide such.

Maybe you wish to carry on with such because a prophet or your dream confirmed your relationship and you hope your STRENGTH can change/strategy such, you are mistaken.

BY STRENGTH SHALL NO MAN PREVAIL.

No matter your level of assurance, don't cry in silence, you may die in shame. Rely not on your power to change your partner, let GOD HELP you.

VOICE OUT my friend, the BEST is meant just for YOU.

He cares, I care
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14-02-16 ENTREATY

The long awaited day of celebrating lovers, is here.
Its so funny that many destinies are ruined on the Bed of Fornication and Places of Damnation. We see newly initiated young chaps lured into the cult of Immorality on dates as today.

Few understood that LOVE is not seasonal or something you fix a date for, but a great part of you.

You must LIVE and WALK in TRUE LOVE before you can get one for yourself.

Anyway, its just a burden shared.

My dear friend, be careful on the entreaties you give consent to. I mean those from your partner.

A man/lady who loves you with the Plan of living with you for the rest of your life should not entreat you to practice activities meant to be done in marriage no matter the urge.

If such person plead to take you to a great mile after releasing your body for marriage practices like kissing, Fondling, oral or real sex, nakedness, house chores like frequent cookings, washing, frequent journeys together,e.t.c.
BEWARE, CHECK your FOUNDATION and planned DESTINATION.

Do not be entreated to do EVIL.
Evil entreaty is not LOVE.
The pioneer of Solid Home (GOD) will be sent out from such relationships if those acts are practiced.

True Love brings the BEST in you not turn you to a monster.

He cares, I care.
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13-02-16 APPRECIATION

The fact that you are so used to each other does not qualify for Disrespect. Your relationship must imbibe Quality Appreciation from each party.

As Forgiveness is essential in all Relationships, likewise, Appreciation.
Praise is comely for the upright.

There is a general saying that 'you may not appreciate what you have until you lose it.'

Praise each other for kind words, nice mode of dressing, gifts received, mistakes made, kind favours, give exceptional recommendations about your partner (those so rare to hear from another person) and see if your LOVE for each other will not be strengthened.

As God deserves your WORSHIP, your partner deserves your APPRECIATION not your Reproof at all time.
#correct in love, appreciates #

He cares, I care.
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12-02-16 PRESS ON

Peradventure you have doubts in your heart as regards the faithfulness of your partner, its not time for you to start to misbehave or develop heart problem.

My dear, put your mind at rest and PRESS ON Faithfully. Ignore hearsays,  regrets or looking for a way of revenge.
Focus on God who orders the step of the righteous at all time.

Remember, God will not allow the ROD of the WICKED to fall on the LOT of the RIGHTEOUS, lest the RIGHTEOUS put forth their hands unto INIQUITY.

Before you know it, your faithfulness in OBEDIENCE, PURITY and HOLINESS to God and your partner will get a safe landing to your OWN destination of PEACE.

You will laugh again.

He cares, I care.
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11-02-16 WHY GIVING UP?

Are you tired for exercising patience with the lady who doesn't love to combine marriage with education?

Are you frustrated that the man is still pursuing other projects aside your wedding plans?

Is the location of your partner hindering your settlement as couples?

Listen, don't give up on your partner. Press on. God makes all things beautiful in His TIME.

No one can give birth to your OWN child/children. There is enough space in the sky to accommodate the birds without their wings touching one another.

Encourage your partner into fulfilment. The reward of its outcome will be yours. Be patient and led by divine instructions not by the number of houses, cars, account balance and children your friends already possess.

He cares, I care
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10-02-16 KEEP YOUR LIFE

Welcome to another edition of Relationship Recipe. We will be dealing with some practical topics for the next few days in February.

Whosoever keeps his MOUTH keeps his LIFE.

Many loses the joy in relationship because they talk too much; they ensnare themselves with many unfulfilled promises in the name of LOVE.

Watch your words and promises whenever you are with your partner, do not allow circumstances to push you into making promises you won't be able to fulfil.

Watch what you discuss about your partner. Planned goals and achievements, still in the oven, which is meant to be between both of you till MATURITY, must not be the latest NEWS on your family table.

Your talkativeness can hinder the testimony of your partner.

Stop boasting around especially to your friends on your relationship matters(achievements).
Always Open your mouth with wisdom whenever you are talking about your partner.
And the fact that you have that special man or lady as your partner does not cast other people around you as being low to your standard.

He cares, I care
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09-02-2016 DELAYED 3

Gracefully, we will look into the remaining three points out of many reasons for delayed marriage.
So far, we've discussed four(4) reasons, which are:
Ignorance, Lack of Commitment, Discouragement, and Carelessness. (If you miss those recipes, send me a message or check our blog).

Pride: Inability to accept the views and opinion of others at different occasions, which may or may not be obvious, can lead to delayed marriage. Marriage is a journey of 'eternal' agreement between a matured man and woman. Whenever you find it difficult to comply to suggestions or to trust others, watch out my dear...

Selfish Desires/Motives: On this point, it will be a great idea to announce to you some selfish motives of marriage. Some wants marriage just to get children; some, to get a cook; some, to get a financier; some, to tie down their partner from other commitments and be their servant/maid, some, because of parental or family pressures and some, to get a bed-mate. If these desires mistakenly looped-out, their partner's may flee.

The last point on this note is Self will. It is so close to the point above but a bit different. Self Will can be likened to PERSONAL STANDARDS set out as a criterion for marriage, which no divine revelation or instruction can overrule because it has been made a rigid law at heart that must not be tampered with.

Until those standards are met, he/she may decide not to settle down in marriage.
For example, building a house, buying a car, after Ph.d programme, engaging with a career/rich person...

God bless you as you look into those few points.

He cares, I care
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08-02-16 DELAYED 2

We started examining the general causes of Marital delay yesterday. We considered Ignorance and Lack of Commitment.

Discouragement: As a result of disappointments of promises from previous relationships, some are discouraged and are not longer interested in marriage. They believed that everyone is the same.

Carelessness: Some started well, but along the line, they lost it on several occasions because they refused to pay due attention to the dare needs and necessities of their partner (not immoralities). For example, time, gifts, counsels, plans together and the likes.

Some have so much position themselves wrongly by their mode of dressing, body and mouth odour, choice of words, rigid beliefs and sentiments. It makes it difficult for the anyone to approach for marriage even at divine instruction.

We'll continue tomorrow by God's grace.

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He cares, I care
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07-02-16 DELAYED

Have you ever thought of a subject called 'Marital Delay'?
At what age can you say someone is experiencing Marital Delay?

Generally, for ladies, age 30 and for men, age 35.
What are the things responsible for this delay?
They are many. We will only address some of them in this recipe.
ARE YOU EAGER TO KNOW THEM?

1) Ignorance: We have people who actually lack the knowledge of the importance and purpose of marriage; such people waste their early years to enjoy the pleasures of life believing that the issue of marriage is like a bridge they will cross when they get there, instead of preparing for it.
By the time they wake up to understand its importance, normal age would have passed and we term it as DELAY for them.

2) Lack of commitment: As we discussed in our former recipes, relationship/marriage deserves your total commitment and hard work. Some are too busy for such commitments in their early youthful years and by the time they are ready, normal marital age would have by-passed them.

We will continue tomorrow by God's grace.

He cares, I care
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06-02-16 CONTENTMENT

Godliness with Contentment is a Great Gain.

My friend, be satisfied with the partner the Lord has given you and stop comparing him/her your so-called 'OTHERS'.

Remember, you can't find gold on the surface.
All relationships brings out the BEST or the WORST in you.

Bring out the BEST in your partner, release yourself, sacrifice time for each other, pray and stop complaining.

Any uncommitted and rigid man/woman does not deserve a good relationship because it is real hard work.

Dig out the gold in your partner and if no compliance, pray. Stop complaining or nagging.

#you can do it#
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06-02-16 COMPARISONS

The godliness with Contentment is a Great Gain.

My friend, be satisfied with the partner the Lord has given you and stop comparing him/her your so-called 'OTHERS'.

Remember, you can't find gold on the surface.
All relationships brings out the BEST or the WORST in you.

Bring out the BEST in your partner, release yourself, sacrifice time for each other, pray and stop complaining.

Any uncommitted and rigid man/woman does not deserve a good relationship because it is real hard work.

Dig out the gold in your partner and if no compliance, pray. Stop complaining or nagging.

#you can do it#
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05-02-16 CALL TO ALL WOMAN

Be not stiff-necked.
Submission is required from you not only from your SHIP-PARTNER but from all who comes in contact with you (no matter their status).

Humble yourself to receive those exceptional packages meant for you to be call VIRTUOUS. Pride goes before a fall.

Obedience to godly AUTHORITIES over you, is a MUST for you. You are not exempted at all.

No matter you qualifications as a woman, be humble. Its an IMPORTANT Qualification.

Above all, Fear God.

#Submission+Humility+Obedience#
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04-02-16 HURDLES

Are you afraid of what will become of you in that relationSHIP when you are so sure its the right one?
I smile.

You don't need to entertain fear if the Ship-master is with You.

Although, his disciples also allowed fear and they could not achieve success, luckily, they were so blessed to have their ship-master on the ship and the storm was calmed.

If your relationSHIP is not facing  hurdles of life, port holes, ditches, and discouraging occurrences, then it is one of the GENERALLY ACCEPTABLE SHIPS. Such don't pose threat to the kingdom of darkness, instead, they are promoters.

Every purposeful SHIP ordained by the Shipmaster will face challenges.

Yes! your adversary will ensure he distracts you from fulfilling purpose. You will get enough reasons to pull out when you listen to circumstances than to divine directives.

Have faith in God and stand by your Ship partner till the divine purpose of your SHIP is fulfilled to bless your generation.

#truth for few#
He cares, I care
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03-02-16 Love Trial

The Big and Mighty Titanic Boat crashed and the love practiced therein didn't last.
Saint Valentine's efforts to help young lovers was disrupted and he was killed.

Human's effort and philosophy of love is limited in itself, for YOUR LOVE will be tested by storms and hurdles of life.

Then, what is true love?
Who can truly love?

Agape Love is the Best Love you can give and get; Its beyond feelings, gifts, opinions, Emotions and attraction. It is perfect.

The only person that can truly LOVE is ONE who fears GOD.
Do you?

#GodisLove#
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02-02-2016 PUSH THE SHIP

Have you seen any scenario whereby a SHIP is being pushed on the Mediterranean Sea whenever the Engine stops working?

Actually, I've not seen one. Its either the sailor with his team repairs it or they hang on there till they find another ship or help.

Don't continue to push or endure your faulty relationSHIP because of the years or emotions involved.
Hmm! You need the service of an ENGINEER/EXPERT (Holy Spirit/godly Counselor).

If the SHIP is beyond repair after spending much resources and time, then you may need to replace it.
At this time point, you must exercise serious patience, gather enough resources and seek an expert's counsel before getting another SHIP.

If great havoc had been done, don't patched it up into marriage; Can you push a big Ship with all your strategies and strength on the sea?

#God can fix you NOW#

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01-02-16 My Will, The Wheel

Welcome to the second month of the Year 2016.
How has been your SHIP & SHIP-PARTNER?

Self-will' is also a good driver. 
Has it been driving the wheel of your ship and the result has been sweet and smooth as you wish?  It is possible, very possible if you don't know.

It just that 'self-will' drives with the philosophy, experiences and strategies of men which gives satisfaction to a certain extent. It is limited in approach.

This month, let His WILL take the WHEEL for you and your partner (Many singles hate this approach)

#Let go,Let God#

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