31/10/19. TRUST GOD

God is too faithful to fail. Know that?
Others may have it all figured out while you are still waiting. Trust God!

A picture perfect couple doesn't always mean the Home is perfect. Trust God

Of course it is your personal life and the counsels from others are overbearing. Trust God

Your Marriage keeps blossoming day after day. Trust God

Trust God to do exceedingly, abundantly, above all we would ever ask of Him.

Shalom!

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart. Never rely on what you think you know."

#Proverbs 3:5 GNT
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30/10/19. SPEAK LIFE

Whatever the situation may be, never that your utterances are a determinant of your circumstances.

Don't be shaken by the present when you can solely depend on the One who knows the Future.

God cares about you way too much to let situations overwhelm you. Whether single or Married, speak life into your home, family, finances, children, generations.

The word of God is Life. Speak Life as from this day!

"It is the spirit that quickeneth; the flesh profiteth nothing: the words that I speak unto you, they are spirit, and they are life."

#John:6:63
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29/10/19. SEEK COUNSEL

In all that you do, don't form oversabi!!!! I-too-know might lead you into Had-I-known!

"My son, listen to your father’s discipline, and do not neglect your mother’s teachings, because discipline and teachings are a graceful garland on your head and a ⌊golden⌋ chain around your neck."

#Proverbs 1:8‭-‬9 GW
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27-10-19. ARE YOU READY?

These days, there seems to be pressure from different corners to get married which might lead to making a hasty decision.

NOTE: Marriage is a phase in lifetime.

Before you say Yes I Do, be sincere to yourself, how prepared are you to accommodate the excesses of another person who's not related by blood from the onset?

How ready are you to be accountable about your money, movements, circle of friends?

How settled are you to be a listening ear or render support to another called your Spouse while you also have challenges to face?

Physically? Emotionally? Financially? SPIRITUALLY? Are you Ready??!

"For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it?"

#Luke14:28
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24-10-19. LAW OF ASSUMPTION

Sister! Aunty! Woman of God! Its your turn

"Male and female created he them..."

There's this fact that female folks try to deny but it is well known that it is self deceit. It is the Law of ASSUMPTION.

It takes place when you are fond of a particular guy and your closeness is very deep as if in a relationship WHEREAS! He hasn't even expressed any intentions. Oh! Because he is calling you Dear? If only you know Dear is one out of many names for his female friends. So don't jump over the moon yet. There's Dear, Dearie, Dearest etc.

If his actions are really leading you on, Sister, seek wise counsel, why not confront him sensibly to ask that the relationship be clearly defined.

He may not be the man OF your dreams but He's already the one IN your dreams.

Be careful o.

Let's share the grace😁

#Genesis1:27
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23-10-19. CANOPY MINISTRY

Dear Brothers in Christ, or would you rather prefer Gentlemen?
No wahala!

There's this gist going on in Sisters unit. It is about CANOPY MINISTRY.

Do you know what that is? Pay close attention, you'll know better.

Canopy Ministry is the subtle act of befriending a Sister, giving her all attention like your life depends on it, getting to know her better and making her feel like your missing rib.

ALAS! You are single and not even searching.

Aaaaaaah! Fear God o! Let Daughter of Zion know where she stands, so each person will marry their own Life partner.

Understood?

Great! Let's share the grace.

"Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband."

1 Corinthians:7:2
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22/09/19. NAKED

"And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed."

This was a time when both of them were innocent. There was nothing to hide or shy away from. The left hand knew what the right was doing. There was no magomago
Alas!

"And the eyes of them both were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together, and made themselves aprons."

Why the sudden change? They had done something wrong. Who were they deceiving?

You can wear the best designer wears, would it cover your conscience?
If you have NOTHING to hide, why are you fearFULL?

#Genesis 2:25
#Genesis 3:7
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21/10/19. HARMONY

Tara & Jide are newlyweds. Their #TaJi4eva hashtag was the most trending over the weekend. It was their first night together and both were super shy to undress when Jide farted and the smell was unbearable despite the AC on. Tara gasped for breath, hoping this was not a usual routine.
Jide could not control his laughter. He said "Babe, Babe see, that's a welcome gift o."
They both burst into laughter, remembering the Pastor made them repeat "I marry you this day, everything that concerns you".

Wedding is just a day's event. Marriage is FOREVER - Know the difference.

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21/10/19. HARMONY

Tara & Jide are newlyweds. Their #TaJi4eva hashtag was the most trending over the weekend. It was their first night together and both were super shy to undress when Jide farted and the smell was unbearable despite the AC on. Tara gasped for breath, hoping this was not a usual routine.
Jide could not control his laughter. He said "Babe, Babe see, that's a welcome gift o."
They both burst into laughter, remembering the Pastor made them repeat "I marry you this day, everything that concerns you".

Wedding is just a day's event. Marriage is FOREVER - Know the difference.

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19/10/19. LOVE TO A FAULT

'What's the extent to prove your Love as acclaimed?'

Several long hour calls? Buying costly items? Surprise visits from long distances? Making announcement on TV/radio? Public display of affection?
We're all humans, so the extent of proving Love is limited. It can't be beyond human capacity/resources.

But there's a love story that never goes sour. The good guy was punished for no wrongs exactly and when asked why he didn't resist, he said "Because I love you"

"Christ died for us while we were still sinners. This demonstrates God’s love for us."

Romans 5:8 GW
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17/10/19. HAVE YOU FORGIVEN YOURSELF?

While growing up, in the process of learning how to walk, there were certain times One would fall or even make some things break. Did that say you should not get up to walk anymore? NO!

Failed past relationships don't mean LONELINESS.

God doesn't remember the past anymore. All of your past was nailed and forgotten. It is time to FORGIVE YOURSELF.

"And then he says, “I will not remember their sins and evil deeds ANY LONGER."

Hebrews 10:17 GNT
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16/10/19. CODE RED: WATCH OUT

There are little things that may not be taken serious in a relationship whereas it's a big deal.

It is far better to discuss such issues until a conclusion is reached while in a relationship than make it evolve into a huge argument in Marriage.

A broken relationship is healthier than a broken marriage.

Red flags exist, only if you shine your eyes to see them.

"Ask the Lord to bless your plans, and you will be successful in carrying them out."

Proverbs16:3GNT
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15/10/19. LITTLE THINGS TO WATCH OUT FOR

Godwin: Didn't you just call your fiancée like 2 minutes ago? Is she in trouble or what?

Johnson: Trouble? No o. I just called to check on her

Godwin: I've been here for an hour and you've called her 5 times or so. Why? Free the babe na

Johnson: what's wrong in checking on her wellbeing?

Godwin: Brother that is in love, nothing is absolutely wrong but when it's as though security check, something is definitely wrong. You called to ask her, "how are you? Where are you? Who is with you?" Haba. That's trust issues o.

Johnson: oh oh. Is that why she misses my calls on purpose?

Godwin: C'mon! She may have other activities to do. Don't be overworked up. Don't assume what is not. If you keep doing like this, she will just be telling you what you want to hear only, which may not be the Truth.

Johnson: So you're saying I have trust issues?

Godwin: Looks like it. There's no doubt that you love her but if she's not convinced that you trust her enough, it may affect your marriage.

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14/10/2019. THINGS TO WATCH OUT FOR

Lizzy: Aunty, where are you packing your clothes to?

Princess: I'm going to spend the weekend at Akin's parents house.

Lizzy: Why?

Princess: His Mum is having a birthday party this weekend. So, I feel I should be around to help with errands or any necessary task.

Lizzy: Wow! Minister in charge of Helps. Akin visited us yesterday and I can't remember such invitation. Or did he exclude me?

Princess: Well he didn't. I want to surprise him. Is that not what friends do?

Lizzy: oooh! Most loyal friend, you better calm down. If he needed your assistance, he would have asked. Don't act wife duties that they did not send you. You'll be surprised at the end to know he is engaged.

Princess: But, we are all friends. Any big deal?

Lizzy: Good you know we are all friends and we are not the only ones either. So what's your own special assistance? We will attend the birthday party and enjoy ourselves.

Princess: Okay o.

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13/10/19. LITTLE THINGS TO WATCH OUT FOR

CODE RED 2

Tade : Guy, your phone is ringing.

Emmanuel : Who is on the line?

Tade : The caller is 'Babe ❤'. So you get Babe and you will be attending Singles fellowship. Let us know ourselves o

Emmanuel: Abegiiiii! Na the babe save it like that o.
Tade : You say?
Emmanuel : I'm serious o. I don't seem to understand why
Tade : You sef! Have I not been around before when you'd be calling her 'Babe', 'Dear', 'My love'. Are you guys really not in a relationship yet?
Emmanuel: Re wetin? We are in friendship not relationship anything o. Someone cannot call ordinary Dear again or what?
Tade : Using affectionate names can pass another signal if it's not mutual, my guy. Let the Babe know where she stands o. Don't be surprised if she has picked a wedding date already

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11/09/19. FUTURE OUTCOME

Today's decisions have an impact on tommorow's outcome.

Think before you leap.

"If one of you is planning to build a tower, you sit down first and figure out what it will cost, to see if you have enough money to finish the job."

Luke 14:28 GNT
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09/10/19. LITTLE THINGS TO WATCH OUT FOR.

CODE RED

Lope: He slapped you? What?! One would have thought he cannot even hurt a fly. What exactly happened? Stop crying now

Sola: I...I...don't even know. We were talking o and he just got angry.

Lope: Angry? Has he slapped you before?

Sola: Well, well,I don't think so....or.. Not really

Lope: Hmn? I don't get you. What do you mean?

Sola: When he's angry, I just stay away from him.

Lope: Ah. Why? You just married o. Did this ever happen while you were in a relationship?

Sola: Not really

Lope: What is this one again? Simple yes or no?

Sola: I can't really remember a slap ever. But I should not lie o. He almost slapped me before we got married. Twice or so. And he would go on begging for days. You can't blame me for forgiving him na.

Lope: O ga oh! Even if they say Love is blind. You! You cannot open your eyes?

Watch-out!

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October 8, 2019. THE MINDGAME

It all begins in the mind, you know?
Your actions are first borne in your mind. So it's better to guard whatever you're feeding your mind with, before it leads to 'Had I known'.

"Be careful how you think; your life is shaped by your thoughts."

Proverbs4:23GNT
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October,7, 2017. DESTINY HUNTERS

Watch out for those who you are intimate with, there are destiny hunters out there.

Be vigilant.

"Once I was looking out the window of my house, and I saw many inexperienced young men, but noticed one foolish fellow in particular. He was walking along the street near the corner where a certain woman lived. He was passing near her house in the evening after it was DARK. And then she met him; she was dressed like a prostitute and was making plans...
where an arrow would pierce its heart. He was like a bird going into a net—he did not know that his life was in danger."

#Proverbs7:6‭-‬10,23GNT
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October 5, 2019. ROMANCE or ROMANS

A quick question: Why exactly are you seeking to be in a relationship?

For the status?
Pressure not to be the odd one?
To feel loved?
Age factor?
To have a companion in pictures?

And if in a relationship already, what's keeping you two together? 
Midnight calls? 
Surprise gifts/visits?
The physical appearance?

Don't be misguided by Romance.

All these feelings will fade one day.

Be led by Romans 12:1. God's word never fails.

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04/09/19. SOUL TIES

By engaging in activities (kissing, smooching, sex) that arouse emotions with a person not yet married to, there's bound to be Soul Ties.

Soul Ties is that 'mutual connection'/feeling of being attached to someone. Even when you can't help it, you tend to think of the person often.

Avoid Soul Ties with whoever's not your life partner.

“Leave those people, and make yourselves pure, says the Lord. Touch nothing that is unclean, and I will accept you.”

#2Corinthians6:17ICB
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October 3, 2019. MY TYPE

This one is not your type. That person is not your type. Even You!! When will you be somebody's type?
Rather than base choice on physical appearances, be sure that God wants WHO is best for you.

Don't fold arms and keep making an endless list. You also should make deliberate efforts to improve in all aspects.

"Wisdom is more precious than rubies. Nothing you want is equal to it.''

#Proverbs3:15 ICB
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October 2, 2019. GOD WHEN??!

At the sight of a beautiful pre-wedding shoot most often, if it is not 'awwwn' that follows, you'd surely hear 'God when?'.
It's alright to admire picture perfect couples, but remember that a scar can easily be covered by make-up and a designer suit can package an ill mannered fellow.

All you keep asking is God when? when you yourself took time to filter a single picture before uploading. Hastiness without conviction is like a sports car caught up in traffic jam. When next you're about to utter 'God when?', never forget that He's the Author of Time and Seasons/He makes everything beautiful in His own time.

"He hath made every thing beautiful in his time: also he hath set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God maketh from the beginning to the end."

#Ecclesiastes3:11
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October 1, 2019. SET BOUNDARIES

There's a limit to which an handshake can reach. There are boundaries set in relating with the opposite sex. Don't form hard guy, hard girl. "Had I known" is not gender biased.

Be wise.

He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.

#Proverbs13:20
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