WORD COUNT
"He who finds a [true] wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord."
Book Review
THINGS I WISH I'D KNOWN BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED.
Ways to resolving Conflicts
1) Meeting in the middle: There is always a solution to conflict. Two individuals who choose to be friends will find that solution.
Meeting in the middle connotes that you find a meeting place by agreeing to do a part of what each you desired while each of you sacrifices a bit. Finding a meeting place in the middle of your original idea so that both of you agree is workable.
2) Meeting on Your Side: This means that after you hear each other's ideas and feelings, one of you decides that on this occasion, it is best to do what the other has in mind. This is total sacrifice of your original idea, choosing rather to do why your spouse desires and to do it with a positive attitude. You are choosing to do what they desire as an act of love and because you care about them and you see how important it is to them. Sometimes the decision to agree with the other person's idea will involve great sacrifice. However, love always involves some SACRIFICE.
We will consider the last phase of this chapter on Conflict Resolution tomorrow by God's grace.
Stay tuned and humble to take corrections.
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