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01/07/17
THE GLORY
RECIPE FOR TODAY
"The glory of a relationship is determined by the application of the Right Knowledge."
My friend, get correct knowledge from its Source - The Word of God.
"Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him shew out of a good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom."
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GRACED RELATIONSHIP RECIPE
30/06/17
CLASSIFIED INFORMATION
RECIPE FOR TODAY
"Keeping an important information as a form of revenge is not wisdom."
Recompense not evil for evil; love covers multitudes of sins.
#Romans12:17
#1Peter4:8b
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GRACED RELATIONSHIP RECIPE
29/06/17
PROBABILITY
TODAY'S RECIPE
'Applying Probability law to start a courtship, as a heir of God, is absurd, Certainty is a necessary. Confusion should not be the Foundation.'
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I hope we learnt from the story of Bianca and Roland, also Yemisi and Abbey. Send your comments and questions if you actually followed the stories.
Today's Recipe:
A CORRUPT HEART IS HARMFUL TO A GLORIOUS DESTINY IN MARRIAGE. WATCH OUT!
Guard your heart with all diligence, for out it are the issues of life. Your heart content is a function of what you feed on which determines YOU.
#Proverbs4:23
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Till tomorrow, remain blessed.
Good Morning.
After consulting a godly counselor on behalf Yemisi and Abbey, this is what I received:
"Do not despite the little beginning"...
Every big achievement always have a starting point, it is the consistent building with trust and faith in each other and God that keeps the marriage moving on progressively.
I will like to speak to both of them...
First, when did they plan to get married? Or better still
When did God say their should solidify their marriage?
Their responses will determine what next to say.
But from the story, I will speak harshly to the sister....
Large money is not the criteria to commence the marital journey, if so, daddy mike and mummy Gloria Bamiloye are not qualified to venture into marriage years ago!!!
When a lady insist too much with this kind of excuse, it weary the love of the man and also weakens his heart. You are telling him indirectly that he is not capable of leading the home!!!
Both of them are working and are living fine, for Christ sake, what next?.... What exactly is delaying them???
RELOCATION??? The sister should think twice ooo
Let them apply this principle to the business..."one will chase a thousand, two will chase ten thousand"... When they agreed to say and dwell together prayerfully, their family business will grow beyond human reasoning.....
Another point worthy of serious cautioning is this issue of joint money or joint contribution or joint savings.....
It is not too good before marriage, but if they have chosen to be committed to one a other in that aspect, why is the issue of relocation be a problem? They should be able to agree and settle down somewhere... Either at Lagos or Port Harcourt, but not separately!!!
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Abbey and Yemisi, his fiancée, went to an eatery to discuss.
Yemisi: To be candid my dear, I am very happy our business fast growing. Two branches in a year could only be God.
Abbey: The Lagos office must birth a baby in no time and research has prayerfully started. We thank God for Divine Wisdom and grace to identify our own line of business.
Yemisi: He has never disappointed us. We called Him and He led us. We are His children, remember?
Abbey: You are right. I also thank God for the woman He gave me. Sincerely, I appreciate your huge financial, moral and spiritual support. You are one in a million.
Yemisi: Thanking me is as thanking yourself.
Abbey: I know. How many women out there can sacrifice such huge amount to a man they are not yet married?
Yemisi: We still have quite a number of us. At least, it is our family business and our secret.
Abbey: I will forever be grateful to God and to you. I hope we have finalized the issue of relocation. Our wedding is fast approaching.
Yemisi: Hmmm!
Abbey: Oluwayemisi, you can't be in Port Harcourt while I stay alone in Lagos as a married man. We should be together.
Yemisi: I know but the returns in the business is not up to my salary in a month and you know that my dear.
Abbey: This is our little beginning and I don't want you to despise that. We are not married and God has blessed us this much in a year. I am sure we will experience greater increase after marriage. Remember, two will chase ten thousand.
Yemisi: This whole issue may appear to you as if I'm not submissive but I want us to consider opening a new branch here in Port Harcourt that I can also oversee. I will get customers in no time, due to my influence at work.
Abbey: My dear, its easier said than done and God has not directed us to that place yet. He led us to open Ogun and Lagos branch which is moving on a top speed today.
Yemisi: Maybe we should look into that Port Harcourt branch also and pray about it. It is not easy to forsake my career like that. Consider the returns please.
Abbey: I am speechless. We need to see our counselor over this issue. Can we eat now?
Yemisi: (Breathes in) Alright.
Responses from Sacrifices 1&2
Mr. Iyanuoluwa
Ma'am If she loses her relationship even the church ⛪ will blame her.
What is the role of her assistant. The assistant can help her manage the choir. She should even thank God she has an understanding man as husband to be.
Mr. Samuel
Based on my intelligence, I think the lady is not ready for the marriage, yes, because that's exactly what will happen when they eventually get married, excuses here and there, and it's one of those things that leads to break up in marriage.
Aside marriage, the body itself needs rest, working round the clock throughout the week, engagement on Saturday as well then Sunday. .....haba! It will later tell on the health.
Back to brother Roland, from what I read here, he's not inviting her over for immorality, just to make plans for the wedding and put their house in order, to be honest with you, no matter how big or small the house I want to build is, I'll leave the kitchen for my wife to design with the architect. Thank you.
Miss Nike
A relationship you don't have time for now, you will never have the time later. Whatever traits either of the Party displays during courtship, the same should be expected in marriage. Marriage does not change people. Bianca should find time for her relationship, she is building a home in accordance to God's will... Its just like the case of Eli, he didn't give attention to his children because he was going about Gods Business. A virtuous woman is one who can at the same time fix her eyes on God and also take care of every other life's aspect. God has given us ladies that capability, that's why, its always easy for a lady to multitask.
Mr. Emmanuel
The best counsel she needs has been given her by Roland. You don't go into a relationship when you are not ready to be committed. She should respect Roland's opinion because when she gets married will she always run to see the counselor about her family issues?
Miss Yemisi
Bianca should be careful so that she will not open the gate for devil to get access into Roland heart. Though, both of them are not married yet but she needs to adjust her godly and social schedule to favour her courtship... Her attitude now tell a lot about her marriage.
NOW IF YOU ARE THE ROLAND'S COUNSELOR WHAT WILL YOU SAY TO HIM?
TILL TOMORROW
Luke14:28
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ROLAND: I'm not trying to be selfish here. We are getting married Bianca. God is involved in our union and we both know it. If we can't create time for each other before marriage, then what awaits therein. We must apply divine wisdom here.
BIANCA: You always complain as if I don't love you or want to be with you. Please understand that I'm a busy woman even before we met. Do you expect me to displease God and the Choir because of my own relationship? I don't just get you Roland.
ROLAND: Bianca, calm down and understand this young man here. He has feelings, he needs you around, to talk together, plan together, pray, study, and arrange our prospective house together. Commitment does not start in the marriage, we need it now. We must sacrifice our time for each other. All these phone conversations and social media chats are limited in their capacity to help us. I know we have distance challenge and I've traveled to and from Abeokuta to pick you to Lagos on several occasions. Do this for us.
You can delegate your duty in the choir to your assistant and create time for your prospective home. We are not babies anymore.
BIANCA: OK. I will speak to my counsellor about it and get back to you because I'm confused here. I'm sure this weekend is not visible. I don't think I can face the road stress because I'll be closing late in the office this coming Friday. Traveling may wear me out for Sunday ministration.
ROLAND: Let's I'll call you later, a patient needs my attention now. Love you.
To be continued tomorrow by God's grace.
If you are Bianca's counselor, what will you say to her?
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Roland: Hello my dear, good morning.
Bianca: My love, good morning. How was your night?
Roland: Awesome. Dear, can we go shopping this weekend? I think we need to hang out. Its been a while we did that.
Bianca: I wish i could but this weekend promises to be very busy with the choir.
Roland: Is there any upcoming church programme?
Bianca: Not our church. We have an invitation from a bigger church for ministration.
Roland: And proper preparations must be in place.
Bianca: Yes dear.
Roland: It's alright. I will go with a colleague.
Bianca: That's OK. A male?
Roland: No, Praise my colleague.
Bianca: You went out with her two months ago.
Roland: I love her choice of things especially kitchen utensils. You know can't set up our new apartment alone.
Bianca: I know but your sister can help us.
Roland: My sister is not in town and my fiancée is very busy with office and church duties.
Bianca: Why that conclusion?
Roland: Last month, you were busy with your church programmes. This month, its an invitation. Since I can't compete with God, I'll fix myself. Our courtship is just four months my dear.
Bianca: You know I'm the church choir director.
Roland: Don't forget you are talking to the head usher of his church also. Stop giving excuses. We have office and distance challenges, the only time we have for ourselves is weekend. Should few hours sacrifice for the man you will marry be an issue?
Bianca: Take it easy on me please. I only have this same Saturday and Sunday for the choir. What do you want me to do?
To be continued tomorrow by God's grace.
"For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it?"
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" The meek will He guide in judgment: and the meek will he teach His way."
Meekness is a necessary requirement for divine direction.
#Psalm25:9
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"I am the LORD your God; I strengthen you and say, ‘Do not be afraid; I will help you.”
#Isaiah 41:13 GNB
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TODAY'S RECIPE
If Mary had been sleeping in Joseph's house during courtship, fornicating, do you think the favour of God will locate her to bring the Messiah through her?
Purity is not only about sex, it cut across all forms of immorality...appearances of evil.
"And in the sixth month the angel Gabriel was sent from God unto a city of Galilee, named Nazareth,
To a virgin espoused to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David; and the virgin's name was MARY.
And the angel came in unto her, and said, Hail, thou that art highly favoured, the Lord is with thee: blessed art thou among women."
#LUKE1:26-28
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"And Isaac went out to MEDITATE in the field at the eventide: and he LIFTED UP his eyes, and saw, and, behold, the camels were coming.
And Rebekah LIFTED UP her eyes, and when she saw Isaac, she lighted off the camel.
For she had said unto the servant, What man is this that walketh in the field to meet us? And the servant had said, It is my master: therefore she took a VEIL, and covered herself."
Isaac took time to MEDITATE, Rebekah COVERED herself with a veil after asking a question.
Meditate on these scriptures prayerful before you GO into marriage.
#Genesis24:63-65
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"And Isaac went out to MEDITATE in the field at the eventide: and he LIFTED UP his eyes, and saw, and, behold, the camels were coming.
And Rebekah LIFTED UP her eyes, and when she saw Isaac, she lighted off the camel.
For she had said unto the servant, What man is this that walketh in the field to meet us? And the servant had said, It is my master: therefore she took a VEIL, and covered herself."
Isaac took time to MEDITATE, Rebekah COVERED herself with a veil after asking a question.
Meditate on these scriptures prayerful before you GO into marriage.
#Genesis24:63-65
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TODAY'S RECIPE
"Don't GO without an up-to-date instruction. The strategy for yesterday's victory may differ that of today. At crossroads in life journey/courtship, LISTEN, we need an updated instruction not assumption before any ACTION."
David did not use the same method in all his battles, he sought God before moving.
"Then David inquired of the LORD yet again. And the LORD answered him..." 1 Samuel 23:4
"And David inquired at the LORD, saying, Shall I pursue after this troop? shall I overtake them?" 1Samuel 30:8
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"What the Israelites saw was the red sea, what God saw was a dry passage amidst the sea. The best is to see through the eyes of the Almighty in all marital/life challenges."
Go forward.
Selah!
"And the LORD said unto Moses, Wherefore criest thou unto me? speak unto the children of Israel, that they GO forward."
#EXODUS14:15(EMPHASIZED)
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"In a race, after settling on a track and set, no movement is valid until the referee blows his whistle as a signal for the race to start.
Likewise in your marital race: wait for the 'GO' instruction from God before moving not peer pressure whistling."
Someone said, if you don't wait you will waste.
"But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing."
#JAMES1:4
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TODAY'S RECIPE
We daily face the challenge of decision making. To an extent Graced relationship blog has helped us with some relationship tips for a godly relationship life, the practical step is still yours to take.
"I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing (obedience) and curses (for disobedience) therefore CHOOSE LIFE, that both thou and thy seed (children) may live:."
#Deuteronomy30:19Rephrased
OBEDIENCE PAYS
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TODAY'S RECIPE
Your plans must be general, all-encompassing: spiritual, physical, emotional, social, financial, moral and all. The wedding day will pass but your plan for the Home will speak beyond the wedding day
I wish you all the best today and beyond.
'Take fast hold of instruction; let her not go: keep her; for she is thy life..'
Proverbs4:13
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"As you make preparations towards a godly home, you must not ignore mental preparations. Your expectations, most times equal your Manifestations."
What do you expect in marriage? Don't enter marriage without an expectation. It's the best, if based on God's word.
"The fear of the wicked, it shall come upon him: but the desire of the righteous shall be granted."
#PROVERBS10:24
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