31/03/18 Graced Relationship Recipe

WORD COUNT
"He who finds a [true] wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord."

Book Review
THINGS I WISH I'D KNOWN BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED.

Talking It Over
1) What do you think is your primary love language? Why?

2) If you are in a relationship, what do you think is the primary love language of your partner?

3) Perhaps you would like to take the love languages quiz found at 5lovelanguages.com

4) Discuss how you think this information will enhance your relationship.

5) You may read The Five Love Languages and discuss it's implications in all your relationships.

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30/03/18. Graced Relationship Recipe

WORD COUNT
"He who finds a [true] wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord."

Book Review
THINGS I WISH I'D KNOWN BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED.

How to Find Your Love Language
Third, what do you request most often? If your friend is leaving on a business trip and you say, "Be sure and bring me a surprise," you are indicating that gifts are important to you.
If you say, "Could we take a walk together this evening?" You are requesting quality time.
If you often ask for a back rub, you are revealing physical touch speaks deeply to you.
If you often ask people to do things to help you, acts of service is likely your love language.
When you ask, "Did I do a good job?" You are requesting words of affirmation.

Observe how you often express love and appreciation to others; list your complaints and requests, and you will likely be able to determine your own PRIMARY love language.

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29/03/18 Graced Relationship Recipe

WORD COUNT
"He who finds a [true] wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord."

Book Review
THINGS I WISH I'D KNOWN BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED.

How to Find Your Love Language
Second, what do you complain about? In any human relationship, what is your most complaint?
If you often complain that people don't help you, then acts of service is likely your love language.
If you say to a friend, "We often spend time together," you are requesting quality time.
If your friend goes on a business trip and you say, "You didn't bring me anything?" You are revealing that receiving gifts is your primary love language.
If you say, "I don't think you will ever touch me if I didn't initiate it," you are saying that physical touch is your primary love language.
If you complain, 'I don't ever do anything right;' your complaint indicates that words of affirmation speak deeply to you. The complaints reveal what you most like to receive from other people.

THE LANGUAGE YOU SPEAK IS MOST LIKELY THE LANGUAGE YOU WISH TO RECEIVE.

To be continued tomorrow by God's grace.

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28/03/18. Graced Relationship Recipe

WORD COUNT
"He who finds a [true] wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord."

Book Review
THINGS I WISH I'D KNOWN BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED.

How to Find Your Love Language
Here are three approaches to help you discover your own primary love language.
First, Observe your own Behavior. How do you typically express love and appreciation to other people?
If you are always patting people on the back or giving them hugs, then your primary love language may be physical touch.
If you freely give encouraging words to others, then words of affirmation is likely to be your love language.
If you are a gift giver, then perhaps what you desire is receiving gifts.
If you enjoy having lunch or taking a walk with a friend, then quality time is probably your love language.
If you are always looking for ways to help people, then acts of service may well be your love language.

THE LANGUAGE YOU SPEAK IS MOST LIKELY THE LANGUAGE YOU WISH TO RECEIVE.

To be continued tomorrow by God's grace.

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27/03/18. Graced Relationship Recipe

WORD COUNT
"He who finds a [true] wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord."

Book Review
THINGS I WISH I'D KNOWN BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED.

LOVE LANGUAGES

QUALITY TIME(Continues): It may also be taking a walk together so long as your purpose is to be with each other, not simply to get exercise. Couples who go to a restaurant and never talk to each other have not spoken the language of quality time. Quality time says, "I am doing this because I want to be with you."

PHYSICAL TOUCH: We have long known emotional power of physical touch. Research indicates that babies who are touched and cuddled fare better emotionally than babies who spend ling periods of time without physical touch. Every culture has appropriate and inappropriate touches between members of opposite sex. Appropriate touch is loving. Inappropriate touch is demeaning. To the person whose primary love language is physical touch, nothing speaks more deeply than appropriate touch.

To be continued tomorrow by God's grace.

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26/03/18. Graced Relationship Recipe

WORD COUNT
"He who finds a [true] wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord."

Book Review
THINGS I WISH I'D KNOWN BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED.

Love Languages
RECEIVING GIFTS: For some people, what makes them feel loved is to receive a gift. The gift communicates, "He was thinking about me. Look what he got for me." The best gifts are those that you know will be appreciated. Listen carefully and you will discover the kind of gift they will appreciate.Better to give a gift that they have requested than to surprise them with a gift they do not desire. Not all gifts are expensive.

QUALITY TIME: It is giving the other your undivided attention. It is not sitting in the sitting room watching television. Someone else has your attention. It is being in the same room with the TV off, the magazine on the table, looking at each other, talking and listening.

To be continued tomorrow by God's grace.

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25/03/18 Graced Relationship Recipe

WORD COUNT
"He who finds a [true] wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord."

Book Review
THINGS I WISH I'D KNOWN BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED.

LOVE LANGUAGES:
WORDS OF AFFIRMATION: "I really appreciate your washing the car. It looks great. You are the greatest."  "You are so optimistic." "Your smile is contagious."

Your words may focus on the other person's personality or the way they look or something they have done for you or for others. To speak this language, you look for things you admire or appreciate about the person  and you verbally express your admiration. If a person's primary love language is words of affirmation, your words will be like rain falling on dry soil. Nothing will speak more deeply your love than words of affirmation.

ACTS OF SERVICE: For these people, actions speaks louder than words. If you speak words of affirmation to this person such as "I admire you, I appreciate you, I love you;' they will likely think and perhaps say, "if you love me, why don't you do something around the house?" If acts of service is their primary love language, then washing the car, changing the baby's diaper is precisely what makes them feel loved. The key to loving this person is to find out what things they would like for you to do. Then do it consistently.

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