16-02-16 SMALL god

Temitope waited many years for divine direction to have a partner. Throughout these waiting period, the presence of God was always his delight. As a successful fellow who never wanted to choose as his friends chose, was consistent and steadfast in the affairs of the kingdom. Everyone loves to pray and wish him well in his marital pursuit which he believed God will settle him at His time.
At his work place, friends and colleagues sees him as a role model and mentor, a great pattern and example to follow and emulate. He is stable in his feelings for his co-worker especially the opposite sex. He never had bad intentions towards them as God helped him.
At 34, He finally met his rib, his woman, at a conference which he attended in another city with the singles of his place of worship. He waited for the right time to propose after due processes have been followed and they got married.
His wife is so fervent, hardworking and committed at home, office and in the house of God.
It was a wonderful testimony for Temitope who now had the boldness to address singles to be patient in the area of Choice.
Few months after his wedding, he relented in his devotions and sees his wife as a perfect being to always be with.
He quited mid-week services and decided to be with his wife or take her out on an outing. He withdrew his help to the orphanage to build a mighty complex for his woman. At first,  people thought it was because they just got married but it continued like that for five years. His mentality and responses at his place of work changed and it became so obvious to those who knew him before. He tends to put his wife above anything because he waited to have her. Can you advise him?

The fact that God answers your prayer after a long time should not take your life from Him. Some are close to God because of what they needed. They prefer PRESENTS to His PRESENCE and once they have the PRESENT, they move away slowly from HIS PRESENCE.

As a single or married, love your partner but love God more. He has the best strategy of love to teach you. It is good to love and have time for your partner but be wise by not turning your partner to your 'small god' in the name of love and neglecting the God answered your prayers.

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15-03-16 SWEET DREAMS MESSAGE

Submit to each other;

Be Sensitive to each other's needs;

Fear is a spirit, deal with it together with Spirit of Love(Jesus personified), Power (Holy Spirit) and a Sound mind (The Word of God).

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14-03-16 DEAL WITH YOUR FEARS

This subject matter- 'Fear' is common in relationship issues. Why?

You see a man who is afraid of proposing to a lady, why?
Also, a lady who is never ready to get serious maritally with any man because of some certain reasons.

Discoveries showed different reasons out of which are the FEAR of the UNKNOWN, PAST DISAPPOINTMENTS, PAST SCARS & STIGMA etc.

I will mention a just two scenarios. There was a man who vowed never to propose to any woman because his first woman died during childbirth. He got disappointed in himself and God.

Also, there was a lady who had made up her mind never to get married because of the various disappointments she suffered from men. She believed all men are the same. She had a child from one of her past relationship. She decided to be a single mother for life.

TEARS from past disappointments should not bring FEAR of a new appointments if proper CORRECTIONS have been made.

For disappointments to occur, a MISTAKE must have been made somewhere.

The giant to face is the MISTAKE not depriving yourself of Future Joy.
If you refused to go into another relationship because of the failed ones, your strength is small.
Disappointments give the grace of doing things right, now in PATIENCE & PROPERLY.

Handle your disappointments with the comfort of the Holy Spirit not just fellow men, you may only get pity.

Fear should have no place in you as a child of God; your have received the spirit of adoption to cry and speak to God as your Father, to present all your petitions to Him leaving nothing out.
He hears and speaks.
He has the best for you, you will smile again.
No fear in True Love.

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13-03-2016 HANDLING LONELINESS

This topic was posed to my heart early this morning: Singles and Loneliness.
Do you know you can be Single and not lonely?

I discovered that we have singles of marriageable age who see themselves as being lonely because they are not engaged yet and love to get pity from friends and others around them.

Singlehood should not attract a feeling of loneliness for a Vision Carrier.
When you are alone, it is easier to focus on some goals without distraction of daily texts messages, consistent phone calls, frequent gifts and the likes to your partner.
 
I know of a married evangelist who travels to be alone whenever he wants to receive certain messages from God. He leaves the house because of distractions. Jacob wrestles alone with the Angel.

Some singles are lonely because they have nothing doing aside their normal routine jobs or businesses.
Whenever they are less busy, the devil sees their heart as a playing ground where different ungodly desires and thoughts can be dumped. Different suggestions of who else to go out with, movies like porn to watch, parties to go,...

Loneliness makes a man vulnerable to the devil's bait.

You can be single and not lonely if you are busy pursuing your divine mandate. The Holy Spirit refreshes you every now and then with new information till the right time to be engaged and even afterwards, especially from the word of God.

If you are empty with no vision or you're waiting for someone to come before you start anything, you may have to wait for a l-o-n-g-e-r time.

Discover your purpose, study to show yourself approved unto God, get busy with your purpose/mandate and always be joyful.

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12-03-16 SENSITIVITY ANALYSIS 2

Yesterday we considered various issues some people are insensitive to especially in their marital relationship.

I saw a movie at the Mount Zion Praise & Power night that revealed similar issue; the insensitivity of the man caused a big crack in the wall of his home until a mighty Lion entered outside his knowledge. He was so busy to see the emotional needs of his wife.

The man might have shown some signs before marriage which the woman was insensitive to; maybe she thought he will change after their wedding.

Its wrong to make some conclusions on the behalf of your partner before marriage. Iron out and neatly settle all discovered faults before settling down in marriage. Although, You can know it all.

The Only solution to Insensitivity in relationships is to be filled with the Holy Spirit.
Be filled with the Spirit of God not wine; you will know all things even the unconfessed faults, trauma and emotional states and needs of your partner.

Handle such issues with great care.

Stop weeping or enduring your present relationship because you've suffered broken relationships. You deserve the BEST, get the Holy Spirit, Get Revelation.
Be sensitive in the Spirit.

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11-03-16 SENSITIVITY ANALYSIS 1

''All the ways of man are clean in His own eyes; but the Lord weighs the spirits'' Proverbs 16:2

Some relationship consists of enduring partners, who weep within, outside the knowledge of their loved one.

What could be responsible for this?
Unresolved issues;
Fear of revealing the unpleasant attitude of their partner after many failed attempts;
Conclusion to tolerate their partner after several warning and cautions with no improvement;
Fear of the unknown;
Doubt of their partner's love and commitment;
Financial crises;
Marital delay due to unsuccessful goals and plans and many more.
You may ask why didn't he/she opt out?
Some have tried more than one relationship and still end up having the same challenge, with no choice of managing the present one. It could also be the strength of love which is interpreted as blind love.

Are you in any of these categories? Let's continue tomorrow.
Remember, God loves you and I care about also.

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07-03-2016 EFFECTIVE LISTENING

What are the new information you hold on to as regards your partner?
People's comment and opinions about him/her influences your thoughts.

My friend, Be swift to hear and slow to speak.
Not all information is relevant, you need the grace of God to be an effective listener or else, things may not augur well between you and your partner.

Exercise patience during discussions, trash out all hearsay together, and listen before your contribute. It enables you to flow from within, listen to the still small voice within before you speak. If you discover it is not easy for you, inform your partner about it- you need some help.
Even when your partner did not abide by your suggestion in a particular matter, still exercise patience and listen.

Effective Listening aids Effective Communication and helps HUMILITY level.
Men/Women of Understanding are good Listeners.

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