"But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn."
It is better to wait than to waste.
It is better to marry than to fornicate. (Apostle Paul)
It is wrong to waste your time practising 'trial and error' method of marriage, get it right.
#1Corinthians7:9#
#Sexmustnotbeyourultimatepurposeformarriage#
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"There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death."
Any family that wants you to get pregnant before marriage, is leading into God's wrath which awaits all disobedient children.
#fleefornication#
#Proverbs16:25#
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Someone shared this with me yesterday.
"You see, no one knows tommorrow. What gives her the assurrance that she will deliver the baby safely if she gets pregnant before getting married? My first date and the person i would have married requested too that it is their family tradition for any lady they want to marry to get pregnant before marrying them. The family called me to tell me of the condition but i told them its against my family tradition too. So we broke up. He is married now to a someone that got pregnant for him before they legally got Married. I also have a baby now and i am not legally Married. What i want to bring out of this is that, I didnt foresee myself getting pregnant before marriage then which eventually happened to me. NO ONE KNOWS TOMORROW. So, getting pregnant before marriage does not guarantee that she would carry the pregnancy to term and deliver safely? Bimpe should not give in to that request rather she should obey and trust in the One who knows ALL THINGS."
#there'sawaythatseemsrightbutleadstodeath#
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I appreciate our responses to Bimpe's predicament. Marriage is not only for procreation, it's a divine blessing to couples. Bimpe was not having health challenges but the pregnancy refused to come. It ended her relationship with her fiancé and she went back to her single life, although very painful.
Someone wrote this to me: "The way God does his things , you can not question Him. Someone will get married as a virgin and wait years before getting pregnant while someone with history of several abortions will conceive on her wedding night.
Why will someone have sex as a single several times and not get pregnant and one young girl will be raped and she does not even know that she is pregnant until 4-5months after the incident."
#theLorddoesasHepleases#
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🤔🤔 Big question: Medical tests to know the reason for infertility... From both Man and woman.. then spiritual counseling... For now infertility is actually proving positive and that's y the mother in law insisted on giving birth before marriage, infertility is a major concern for divorce in marriages...
Doc Bolaji
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Wao..... Jesus has not entered fully into her boat ni ooo maami.
Wen u cannot stand for something, you will fall for anything.
Papa Femi
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🙆 yeh!!! Nah one chance be dt o.
Seriously what do people take God for? Do they think it is because you have sex that you become pregnant? If that is d case, then Sarah should av given birth to d multitude God promised Abraham by herself or you think it is because she does not have enough sex or her hubby was impotent that she had to rely on Isaac to turn her hubby to a father of many nations?
Rara o☝☝☝God was not just ready to open her womb!!! So if you think you sleep with your fiance before d wedding for you to get pregnant, you have made a big mistake.
I use to know a lady who was asked by her in laws to get pregnant before her wedding and she did that. Guess what🤔 she was 8months gone before d wedding and barely 4weeks after d wedding, she gave birth through CS yet lost d baby. To cap it all, she waited another 1year before getting another🔨 pregnancy. Let us thank God for her. What if she had to wait 15years before she got another one?
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Bimpe was disturbed about her three years relationship with Kinsley. They've gone a long way together and wedding plans already began. To her greatest surprise, her in-laws-to-be, especially her mother-in-law insists that she gets pregnant before the wedding because her elder sister is yet to give birth after six years of marriage.
Actually, she is not a virgin. She gives in, anytime to Kinsley demand for sexual pleasures. Unfortunately, the pregnancy is not forth coming and marriage plans are on hold.
Please advise her?
There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death. #Proverbs14:12#
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"And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may PROVE what is that GOOD and ACCEPTABLE and PERFECT will of God."
Conformance with the philosophy of men on home and relationship in this present age cannot help you to prove the PERFECT WILL OF GOD.
The word of God alone, truly proves right.
#benotconformed#
#Romans 12:2NKJV#
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Must you have sex before marriage because other believers are doing so?
Can God PROVE you faithful in a faithless and perverse generation?
Can you faithfully pray this prayer of David?
*Examine me, O LORD, and prove me; try my reins and my heart.*
#Psalm26:2#
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Daniel and His friends found themselves in the King's palace, this was the will of God for them. They remained undefiled by King's food and wine.
God led you into that relationship, Yes, But can you be proven undefiled?
#Daniel1:12#
*courtshipisnotalicencetosex*
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How much can be offered to you, that worth the price of the body God puts in your care?
"If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are."
#1Corinthians3:17#
*yourbodyisnotyours*
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Once your Union discovers divine purpose and runs with it, things fall in place for the achievement of such purpose.
Your home appears like every other, without purpose discovery.
"And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose."
#Romans8:28#
#discoverpurpose4allrelationships#
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"Faithful is he that calls you, who also will do it."
God will settle the wedding budget if He knows about the whole plan.
Put your mind at rest, rely on Him and have Great Faith.
#HopeinGod#
#1Thessalonians5:24#
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"And the light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not comprehend it."
Peace is not a gift, it is a fruit you must birth from Sincerity (Light). It has an enemy called insincerity/deceit (Darkness).
Be sincere to your partner, doubt will fizzle out.
#John 1:5#
#Besincere#
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"Can two walk together, except they be agreed?"
The burden and responsibilities in the relationship must spread between both parties.
#Loveisnotselfish#
#Amos3:3#
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"The MEEK will He guide in judgment: and the MEEK will he teach his way."
It takes Faith and Absolute Humility to accept the divine guidance in marriage.
#Psalm25:9#
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"Multitudes, multitudes in the valley of decision: for the day of the LORD is near in the valley of decision."
There are many singles battling with the confusion about whom to marry.
*Youth at the Valley of Decision!*
Confusion sets in most times when we set high standards contrary to divine arrangement. It brings about struggling.
Dear, first discover your purpose in God and others will fall in place.
#Benotunequallyyoked#
#Joel3:14#
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"Multitudes, multitudes in the valley of decision: for the day of the LORD is near in the valley of decision."
Marriage is a decision to live with an imperfect person for the rest of your life, hoping to bring out the best in such.
Marriage is a decision of FAITH.
*Youths at the VALLEY OF DECISION*
#Joel3:14#
#marriageisn'tforbabies#
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"... at the mouth of two witnesses, or at the mouth of three witnesses, shall the matter be established."
Confirmation is necessary in your marital pursuit. Many factors contributed to your decision about the person you wish to settle down with, therefore, confirm. Not all factors are genuine.
You need confirmations from other reliable parties, not because you are not capable of deciding right but because the day of DOUBT will always come.
*Your biological and spiritual parents must be carried along*
#Deuteronomy19:15b#
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"My wounds stink and are corrupt because of my foolishness."
Shalewa ignored all calls and messages from Oscar. He visited her to confirm reasons for such unexplainable acts.
When Shalewa sighted Oscar, the love she was trying to kill, came back. She hugged and kissed him then ran back to her room. He followed her and after much explanations, Oscar apologised for his nonchalant attitude towards Shalewa's emotions and plans. He loved her just a close friend and nothing more.
He promised to help her kill the feeling by keeping a distance. Shalewa couldn't bear Oscar's disappearance from her life, she was hopeless, then committed suicide. It was pathetic.
(A similar incidence happened in a particular University in Nigeria some years back.)
Define all relationships, it is foolishness to assume you status with anyone.
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#Psalm38:5#
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